While they may seem like the perfect couple on the surface, in the July issue of Redbook Magazine, actress Jada Pinkett Smith says she and husband of nearly eleven years Will Smith often disagree on things, but that is part of why they love each other.

“We’re constantly surprising each other,” she said. “No matter what side of the scale one is on, the other will switch to keep the balance. We crack up about it all the time. We hardly every agree on anything, and we’ve learned to really respect that in our relationship. You might have an idea in your mind of what marriage is supposed to be, and you’re driving, driving, driving, toward this ideal picture. But you have to be open to the fact that your relationship is meant to be something else.”