Lil Kim isn’t letting Whitney Houston or a little reality TV pregnancy scandal stand between her and the man of her dreams–Ray J Norwood!

The Grammy-winning Dancing With The Stars castmember, who once carried on an affair with the very married Biggie Smalls, is still holding fast to her fatal attraction to unavailable men, friends say.

“She just doesn’t want the hassle of being a full-time lover,” a spywitness blabbed in the March 2 edition of The National Enquirer. “She just seems to be drawn to guys she can’t have for keeps….Kim is totally cool sharing her men with other women.”

Kim was spied putting the moves on Ray J at Brandy’s 30th birthday party at Nobu West Hollywood on Feb. 11.

“Lil Kim was all over Ray J. The two were carrying on like there was no one else in the room. Kim is well aware that Ray J is still dating Whitney, she also knows about the woman who claims to be his baby mama. She doesn’t view other girls as competition…Her attitude is, ‘When you’re with me, just give me 100 percent.”